Some people say that a person’s success in adult life is the result of the way they were brought up as a child by their parents. To what extent do you agree or disagree?
Give reasons for your answer and include relevant examples from your own knowledge and experience.
It is often told that home is the first school and parents are the best teachers to a child. From the birth of a baby, parents bring up and nurture a child by going all out. They provide an environment that children can cope easily with situational learning.
Parents build up social values, discipline, behavior, and so on which help to grow up a child properly. In the success of a person or failure, many people say that it is the result of parenting. I strongly believe that parenting helps in growing up a child’s mental and physical state as well as it also leaves a significant impact on his career graph.
Parents help to build up a child’s ambition and children always follow their parents. If a person succeeds by his hard work and living in an austere way he tends to motivate his offspring to study hard for being successful. He always keeps an eye on his children’s studies. And children also will be motivated, inspired, and will be concerned about their future and study. If a person spent his life in poverty he always teaches his children to live in a simpler way by avoiding excessive expenditure and children will learn the value of things and money.
In this modern era, in the case of working parents, they are swamped with their own busy world and can not get sufficient time to pay attention to their children. In that case, children do not get parents whenever they want so that they grow up with a disturbed childhood and developed as a stubborn, arrogant, rebel, and obstinate. For their workaholic parents, they do not get a parent’s company to nurture their mind and always feel forlorn as well as suffer from loneliness.
This leaves a negative impact on childhood and adolescence which may lead to depression and frustration. For adolescents, there are many ways to go astray by being attracted to the wrong ways which later spoil their life. As parents are drowning at their packed schedule, juveniles can not chirp their parents and involved in illicit ways and these may be life-threatening to them.
But, instead of good parenting children can go phut by any sources like their friends, relatives even family members. On the other side, there are a plethora of examples that after having an ignored parenting children have succeeded in the future with their hard work. But in growing up a child’s parent’s role is incomparable and has significant importance to build up a child’s healthy physical and mental status and a bright future indeed.